Responsibility.
It is hard to take in, especially when it comes to your accountability for your action and decisions. Being responsible is being able to fulfil your obligations and commitments in a reliable and trustworthy way.
You started to become responsible the moment you begin to walk when you learned to eat and started to play. Unknowingly, you started to make decisions about what you like. You decide not to stand up again because you know you going to fall, you don’t like the taste of carrots and you don’t like to slide down with your head first because you will get hurt. You build trust with yourself at a very young age. You hide when you know you did bad things and you show your parents when you are proud of the good things.
We learned these things when were little.
But why is it hard when you are growing up? You are more afraid to take ownership of your actions and make responsible decisions. You become lazy in setting clear goals and priorities. You are not communicating effectively and not learning from your mistakes.
Some possible factors that can contribute to a lack of responsibility include a lack of accountability, poor impulse control, low motivation, a sense of entitlement, a lack of consequences for your actions, and a lack of role models for responsible behaviour.
It’s important to remember that everyone is capable of improving their level of responsibility with effort and practice. And here are the steps to take to become responsible.
Steps to take to be more Responsible
- Identify areas where you can take responsibility in your life, such as your relationships, work, or personal health.
First and foremost, be kind to yourself. No one will understand you more than anyone but yourself. Assess your strengths at the very moment you will take a decision. Your mindset, are you capable or not? Knowing your current situation. Is it possible for you to do it?
- Set clear goals and priorities that align with your values and responsibilities.
When you set your mind to transform yourself, accepting your flaws, pride and ego come next. Taking responsibility is hard if it’s not in line with your values.
- Make a plan to take action towards these goals, and hold yourself accountable for following through.
Creating a schedule or to-do list, and following through on commitments is the best plan of action to take. Practise and stay consistent.
- Practice good communication and active listening skills to build trust and respect in your relationships.
Communication is the bridge to a great feeling. This will strengthen your emotions and trust in yourself and others. Respect is earned when you listen and communicate.
- Take care of your physical and mental health by practising self-care habits, such as exercise, meditation, or therapy.
Self-Love has a compound meaning. This is not just ordinary like buying material things, or going to a spa to make you happy. It has a deep meaning in which taking care of your physical, emotional and mental being, as this helps build a strong foundation for responsible behaviour.
- Consider the impact of your actions on others and the environment, and make conscious choices to reduce harm and increase positive impact.
Be aware of your actions in your surroundings. What kind of impact do you share and leave with others? It is good to reflect on the actions and decisions you made.
- Learn from your mistakes and use them as opportunities for growth and improvement.
Be honest with yourself, especially with your mistakes and learn from them. This will set you free and become more sincere. Acceptance of the outcome of your actions and taking the consequences is being accountable. This means that you will be embracing growth and improvement.
Taking responsibility means acknowledging and accepting the consequences of your actions and decisions. It involves being accountable and owning up to your mistakes, and taking steps to make things right. It is an important trait that can help build trust and respect in personal and professional relationships.
You got this!
